Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Women and doggy: my take

Me wonders if some men are voting in the poll, considering that doggie is the winning position so far. Most of the woman I know prefer missionary for lovemaking, and on top when the want to come (I'm fortunate in being able to come in virtually every position).

One of my early lovers initiated me into doggy. He was very athletic and into all sorts of positions -- he had a kama sutra book in his bookshelf. It was all new for me, being a college girl whose early lovers mostly wanted to hop on top and come as fast as they could.

Doggie provoked some mixed emotions. It felt very different. He was average size, and could really get in there when he fucked me from behind. It obviously felt great for him, because he would come pretty quickly once we switched. I liked trying something new, and I loved it the first time I looked back and saw his face: he was so happy and into it. I realized he got off seeing my back and ass, seeing his cock disappear into me, and, he said, it was a very tight feeling. I didn't like not being able to see his face.

Since then, I have been fucked doggie by most of my major lovers. I learned to find the position, with my head down and ass high, that made it work best. One well-hung guy fucked me with my legs inside his legs, if you can visualize that. That way he could fuck me with abandon without hurting me. Skilled lovers would fuck me with their cock coming in at different angles as they rotated their hips -- major turn-on. I love being bent over a piece of furniture, or even just head down standing there, while the right-height man fucks me standing up, my dress still on. Eventually I lost my anal cherry, too.

I learned to be aroused by the primal nature of it, not seeing him, being taken from behind...if a relationship was getting old, I will confess to fantasizing about another man while the current boyfriend fucked me that way. And some of my post powerful orgasms have "come" from being taken this way.

But my favorite all-time position? Probably not. But I'd love some comments from women (or men)...

10 comments:

dickie dick said...

doggies fun...the view is a great turn on for men and I find I can get in there a little deeper than mish...I really like to eat a woman in that postition too...makes me feel nasty and ready for another go.
you're a great writer....keep it up you're keeping me up!!
dickie

luna said...

I absolutely love doggie style! I like it rough and deep and this is the best position by far for that. Missionary position is just boring. Blah. Yuck. If I wanted to gaze lovingly into his eyes I'll do it when we aren't fucking.

Anonymous said...

Woman here....I love just about every position, but doggie may just be my favorite. It's just so versatile..my lover can bend me over a tree branch (my fave), a couch, a desk...anything the right height really. and the best part...he can smack my ass good and hard while he's fucking me in this position....and it allows me to push back...taking control of how deep, how hard, how fast. love love love it!!

Anonymous said...

My first girlfriend loved doggie. I think because a lot of her favourite things were easily done from that stance. <_< And I'm not going to lie and say that it's one of my favourites as well, second to a woman being on top and facing me. She liked it when I would lick her pussy or ass in that position because she said it gave her a feeling of power, and she also liked to be spanked, saying she loved the uncertainty of not knowing when they were going to be planted. I myself enjoy the position for the same reason many other people do, just for that primal feeling, that simple form of dominance and submission. Although I can remember some of my most romantic encounters coming from that position, but I couldn't figure out how to tell you why.

Anonymous said...

This is quite interesting actually...from reading your blog I would assume doggie is your favorite position because of its animalistic and rough nature. As sexual and physical as you present yourself, in the end, your preference of missionary sheds a more emotional side of you. Or maybe I am just influenced by my own perception of the two positions :)

Linda Sue said...

You are very astute.

Anonymous said...

Female here! Doggy has always been my favorite! Something about not knowing when or where its going to happen and the lack of control...gets the juices flowin!

Carrie said...

I guess I'm different. Don't particularly like doggie-style, but I do it to please my husband. I like missionary and on top the best.

The Fellatrix said...

Good post, Linda Sue. I agree with the commenter above that doggie is very animalistic, and has some kind of raw basic appeal. I suspect that's one reason you see it so much in porn.

sonya said...

Just love doggy!