Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Some love big dicks; many tell white lies

I vividly remember my first big penis. I was 19, and had only recently lost my virginity. I had enjoyed only two lovers, boys with what I now know were average cocks, and quite nice. The situation in which I found my first big one deserves its own post, but let's return to penises.

I saw it and was enthralled: it looked huge -- he said it was nine inches, so even deducting for braggodocio, it was giant, and thick. It was uncircumsized -- I had never seen such a thing, and it looked both odd and exotic. I was drunk and horny, already feeling out of control, but the sight of it was also scary. That monster was going to try to get into my recently virginal vagina?? Truth be told, it was uncomfortable at first. He was young and not very sensitive about the equipment he was carrying. I was sure I was going be torn open and bleeding!

Pretty soon, though, my pussy accommodated it and it was an amazing feeling. I had never felt so filled up, and every thrust just seemed to take the breath out of me. This was raw fucking with no teenage romance, and I was on the receiving end. I pulled up my knees and wrapped my legs around him as he pounded into me. My moans got louded and percussive. Thrust...Oh! My orgasm was very powerful and my contractions had never felt so good, my pussy walls enveloping that great cock. The experience began my appreciation of large penises.

Which brings me to this month's poll question. Note that the majority of respondents say they wouldn't tell their lover that his penis didn't measure up, presumably to past experience, or even to expectations. Some men might have been voting their anxieties or humiliation fantasies. But I have heard from enough women to know the grrls are weighing in, too.

One wrote me to say her current lover was too small, and didn't give her the feeling of her previous big men. Should she tell him? Of course not. If he's loving and can make you come, that's a treasure.

The penis debate will never be settled. Believe me, gentlemen, some women don't like big cocks -- they can be painful, especially when banging against the cervix. And, some girls love them. One writer told me that of her first two lovers, one was more than seven inches and the other was eight. Yow, girl!

Most women are not cock-obsessed the way some men can be about breasts. I have known men who would fuck a dead cow if a pair of 40-DDs were attached to it. Give me leg men who appreciate modest but pert breasts.

Have I ever told a white lie to a man who asked about his size? You bet.

Here's the deal, though: a man with a big tool can't just show up. He can hurt me or, worse, bore me. And some men are so big, they have a hard time finding women who can handle it. Porn star or freakish doesn't do it for me. Seven inches to about nine, and nicely thick, does. But, my best lover was average and thick, with a nice big helmet of a cock head. So, life is unfair and some men are well-endowed. But the best lovers must be skillful and giving. That can make up for average, or even below average.

11 comments:

I'm the sophisticated, educated woman in the power suit during the day...and you might know me as Linda said...
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Susan said...

It's true, Linda Sue. My husband is a loving man, a very skilled lover, my soul-mate. But he doesn't match up with my former boyfriend. I don't miss the old bf, most of the time. But that "filled up" feeling you describe...wow. Glad I experienced it.

--Susan

a webber said...

I'm enjoying this, you've got quite a way of putting things. Hope you keep going at least until all the topics are covered. Thanks for the entertainment.

A Webber (The Kristen Archives)

Sam said...

This can sound funny until you have lived it. My wife of two years left me for another man. When I pressed her for the reason, it was that he had a much bigger cock than me, and she just loved the feeling when he fucked her.

Our sex life had always been tame, despite my efforts to please her. Now I understand the problem.

It's a blow to confidence, to put it mildly. Devastating, more like it.

james said...

As a urologist, I get to see various specimens. When it comes to large ones, most men aren't as big as they think they are. It seems a lot of people can't judge what an inch actually is, nor measure from the right place. Unless you've personally put a ruler along the top edge, don't trust the claim ;) Oh and for the record, I'm shorter that average and have had no complaints.

Heather Anne said...

My one time with a well-endowed man didn't go well. He didn't take the time to get me worked up, so I wasn't that wet, then he just jammed it in and humped away until he came. Sure, he had a nine-inch dick, but he was a big prick. Give me my "average" boyfriend.

sexy 69er in the UK said...

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fiveincher said...

My wife says taht size is not important as long as it is big.. :)

Anonymous said...

I'm a guy and I certainly appreciate the look of big penises - can't say I've ever felt one. I wish I had one though. I think my preoccupation results in a sexual dysfunction of sorts. It's important for guys (and gals) to be happy with what they got. =P Everything is beautiful, in its own way o/`

Bernard said...

7-9 is porn star. 8 is average in the industry. Most people dont know what an inch is.

Lee said...

Linda, you are so spot on with this entry! My ex-wife is a true size queen. She could never get past how it felt to have what she thought was about a 10-inch cock inside her. She used to talk to me about it (as well as her other lovers) during sex, even as I pumped away with my little 4-incher. Sure, I could make her cum multiple times over the course of 45-60 minutes and several rounds, but she told me her 10-inch boyfriend always had her cumming, right from the moment he fully entered her, and she never stopped until he did. I have plenty of experience with and statements from women such as my wife, who are penetration-oriented, about how a small penis (either girth &/or length-wise, and mine in particular) simply cannot stretch them to the point that they get that filled up sensation, or reach their most sensitive parts (G-spot, extended clitoris, etc). No matter how tight they are. Likewise, many women tell me that they have turned down vaginal intercourse with guys who are "just too damn big," which is almost always over 9 inches. Perhaps not so surprisingly, statistically, there are as few men with dicks that large as there are men my size. I'm just glad that purportedly I have great oral skills.