Thursday, February 21, 2019

Seeing is believing

Three photos on this blog are the real me. I won't tell you which ones. I will say this: Thank god I'm old enough that my wildest years were before iPhones or I'd be in big trouble. Especially considering my job.

Nowadays, you can't trust a lover to take an intimate photo or video and not post it on the internet. This is especially true of someone seeking revenge after a breakup.

To be sure, I'm something of an exhibitionist and if I were younger and in a different field, it would be exciting to see myself the subject of hundreds — thousands! — of guys masterbating to my image. I know you do it to my stories — I've even spiced up some marriages if my emails are to be believed. I think about my most passionate relationships and wish I had stills and videos (with sound) of those — but only for me.

The only time I was filmed having sex was my infamous time at the frat house, when I was nearly gang-banged. I realized too late that someone had a videocam running. That was in college, before I learned the moves that would have allowed me to seize the camera and do a beat-down on the cameraman. Oh, well.

In a couple of relationships, my lovers and I took Polaroids of our fun. Me being fucked from behind, sucking him off, him going down on me, me posing legs spread wide. Pretty take stuff. I still have them. I also have photos my husband and I took.

One of my friends — I'll call her Lauren — was filmed having sex with her boyfriend. The camera was set up for a perfect angle to catch his dick going in and out of her as she lay there, knees up. He moved her around so every position was captured. After they broke up, he posted it on the net and sent Lauren a link. Her face was visible. This is the height of slime.

So is the experience of Heather, who told me how her professional photographer boyfriend took hundreds of shots of her naked, of them having sex, closeups of semen running out of her pussy, and the threesome with his best friend he talked her into. He dumped her. She now sees the pics on porn sites. She also learned he had done this to other girlfriends.

Other friends are willing participants. With iPhones and other digital devices, it's commonplace for some couples to photograph their privates, their partners naked and wet or hard, selfies... It's a thing.

But not for me. You'll have to use your imagination.

What about you? Tell me everything.








13 comments:

Anonymous said...

My girlfriend and I took Polaroids of our sex. She's gone but I treasure those pictures.

JFBreak said...

My wife and her BF are constantly sending pics back and forth to each other, and of course, she shares with me. But for the most part, they avoid faces in the pics. I will occasionally post pics on my blog, but never with the face exposed. I totally understand those couples willing to show faces - their thought process being that if someone recognizes me, then it is obvious they are into the same stuff. But we all know that isn't the way it always works. A friend recognizes a face, then shares with others, and now everyone knows your kink.

I like the Dan Savage idea of an annual naked picture day. That is, if one day, everybody had to upload a nude photo of themselves on the Internet, then everyone would be exposed and politicians and people like us with security clearances wouldn't have to worry that we would be exposed. Hell, Anthony Weiner might have become Mayor of New York!

Anonymous said...

Masturbating. One u, no e. Sorry, I didn't comment on it last post but it does make me twitch.

I have nude photos of my wife, some (all? one? I don't actually remember when all of them were taken relative to our getting married, beyond the one that was taken the first week we had sex) were photos of my girlfriend or my fiancee when they were taken. Of course even if we had a horrible breakup and a thoroughly messy divorce, I would never show them to anyone else.

Kevin said...

Well, if you profile photo is real and accurate, then you've got a hell of a body, LS! Not to mention your online personality and writing are equally attractive. However, I can't say I've been prompted to drop trow' and run through the gears. Why? Beats me (pun intended).

My (ex) wife and I took some video of the two of us doing the deed at home and on a cruise, but that was many moons ago and the mini-8 cassettes have been lost to the sands of time. Oh well, it's for the best anyways.

I read a recent article on the proliferation of revenge porn, and I agree with you, LS, anyone that would do that is "slime". But, the older I get, the more I realize how much "slime" there is just beyond one's front door. And while dabbling in exhibitionism in that regard is exciting, sadly it's not worth the risk these days.

Anonymous said...

Your posts were great and you should have wrote more here

Anonymous said...

My wife and me have been making nude pics of her and me almost from day one thirty years ago. Up to ten years ago we made real photos (which we still have and treasure), now we use our smartphones. We post pics on our blogs, but carefully cut out or blur any face before doing so. Pictures with visible faces are for our eyes only.

Anonymous said...

Love this, I've been lurking for ten years. My guess for the three photos: 12//26/08, 10/19/10 and 2/21/19. Even if I'm wrong, it was a heckuva lot of fun to scroll through all the pix of the last dozen years. Your curation is lovely!

Anonymous said...

Would opt for the same three pictures, though the photos don't have enough resolution to show your (I quote) 'prominent, long nipples'.

Linda Sue said...

Very good on those dates, anon.

Anonymous said...

Ha! Just trying to pay attention to the best details!

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Anonymous said...

Possibly of use to someone who sees this: There is apparently a website that you can contact to have your nudes forcibly removed from the Internet, whoever uploaded them. https://stopncii.org/