Thursday, December 3, 2009

Tell me why

I'm fascinated by the current poll. I would draw the line at stuff that hurts or is yucky. I'm in this for pleasure, not pain -- and I know the difference. But I'm really interested in the women who don't want their pussies licked. Why not? And why won't you go down on a man? And you guys who won't lick pussy. Why not!?

Not judging. Just interested. Please leave a comment -- it's totally safe. You can just check "anonymous" if you want. Or send me an email. Explain why these things are turn offs. Thanks!

29 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love licking pussy. And if I'm really into it, I'll suck a little cock too! But no piss or shit please.

Anonymous said...

I can't handle cunnilingus. The feelings are just too intense. My ex-husband said I was afraid of losing control and maybe he's right.

Anonymous said...

I love licking pussy too. My old lady hates when I start heading down yonder. Only wants me inside her...very strange, no? She explores all sorts of positions, which is fun, but I want to taste sweet puss too.

Anonymous said...

I have never licked my wife's pussy. Even after a shower, the odor is still so intense that I can't get near it. I just don't understand - she is a clean woman everywhere else.

I gave up trying a long time ago. Now, I fulfill that need elsewhere.

Taylor said...

I am ALL about oral sex, both giving and receiving!! When it's that time of the month, I literally crave cock (no bullshit) and bring on any man that loves pussy, especially the ones who can breathe through their ears!!

Kiera said...

There wasn't a box for me to click! I'd try all of those things.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I have tried almost all of them too, and I am getting around to the rest! Where is the n/a choice?

As for worshiping at the female altar, it is my favorite sexual activity. I can make a woman writhe and pant and moan (and sometimes scream!) with my mouth on her pussy in ways that I can achieve through no other method (without the aid of technology). And when that is happening, it is a HUGE turn on for me.

I also love all of the varied tastes / scents. All are unique and wonderful! Whenever I get a slight whiff, it is like blood to a shark!

You guys who won't go there are missing out on one of the very best things this planet has to offer!

Anonymous said...

Depending on who I'm with, I'll draw the line at going down on a dude. I'm SUPER paranoid about STIs, and the last thing I want is, like, oral gonorrhea. I'm willing to rock it out with a condom, but most dudes aren't in to that. So until you show up with a shiny clean bill of health, the options are a bit more limited. It's sort've a shame, since I -love- oral sex, giving and receiving.

Marco said...

Í think oral sex is absolutely the best, I love going down on a woman and making her cum over and over that way. I cannot imagine any woman who would not enjoy that. Of course if its possible to indulge in these delights in a mutual way then ALL THE BETTER ...... BTW Taylor, I am THAT man, perhaps cant breather through my ears but I can go down for hours ;-)))))

Clem said...

Absolutely NOT a turn-off to me. I've now had 3 women this past summer tell me I've given them the best orgasms of their lives, from licking and fingering them.
Oh, and they LOVE to be rimmed too. Squirm and gasp from it.
I LOVE it!

Anonymous said...

I love to give head. I think it's my favorite thing to do. Makes me so wet it drips down my leg. I'd go down on a man every day if I can.

However, I don't like a man to go down on me. Just not comfortable for me and doesn't feel good enough for the trouble - I need more pressure than a tongue/mouth can apply for it to feel good. I'm thinking I simply haven't found anyone good enough at it to make it worth my time. There are a lot of men out there that simply don't know how to do it or are half-hearted at best.

Abraham said...

Hrrm. I selected golden showers since it's sort of close to "No scat, please."

Having been surprised once when rimming went bad it's on the nono list forever(the rest of the night went fine after a shower and brushing of teeth).

And I adore going down on a woman, but some women just find it way too intense even with fluttery lip and tongue work.

Anonymous said...

I only like it for a guy to lick my pussy if HE's really into it -- nothing worse than a half hearted job down there!

Eros said...

There is no option to vote for "Anything Goes".... I personally love oral! Giving more than receiving actually. There's something spiritual about being so intimate and in receipt of such trust. I feel that level of trust is a gift like no other. Feeling her squirm beneath my lips, tongue and fingers is heaven for me.

David said...

i love to lick pussy and suck cock (i'm bi) getting oral is great but i prefer to give the pleasure.

i'll draw the line at anything brutal or yucky, golden showers and scat are uncool

Anonymous said...

I pretty much don't have any limits, as long as it feels good, lets do it. Hell, if you can push my buttons right, I dont even care if it feels good, as long as it is INTENSE

Weird said...

it is interesting that golden showers have received so many votes. if you have not tried it and found it erotic i can understand drawing a line in the sand, i suppose. ladies seem to like it, and taking showers together can offer lots of interesting things to do other than washing each other's backs.

brutal roleplay also has a lot of votes, and this is more reasonable than being put off by a lady pissing on your dick in the shower. the word 'brutal' can mean many different things to different people. i envisioned a brutal version of brutal that probably included fists and blood and lots of genuine pain. i am not interested in that as a form of love making because it simply does not interest me.

i am, however, a huge fan of ropes and chains and control and suspension and stuff like that. as she is also, and as she never knows what might be in store, we could call this rough roleplay perhaps. a slap on the ass is far different from a punch in the face. perhaps you should do a poll on roleplay, with a variety of levels from 'school marm and bad student' to 'doctor's examination' to other things, ending up with your concept of brutal roleplay.

my thoughts...

Anonymous said...

Nothing makes my cock harder, faster than eating pussy. Absolutely love it and am willing to go as long as she wants. Ya gotta work up to it; kissing and licking her thighs, talkin' shit the whole time. Ignore her pleas to speed up. By the time I get to her pussy, it's already sopping wet and I can drink in the juices. Also, my favorite is just as she's comming down from an intense orgasm, I suddenly throw her legs back and see how far I can get my tongue up her ass. They will never forget that and who did it.

RIV said...

I enjoy giving oral to most women, but I have encountered a couple that didn't like being eaten for some reason.

Like someone suggested, perhaps it's a control then, or something they just abhor for some reason or another. Maybe previous psychological or emotional reasons?

Anonymous said...

I wouldn't draw a line at it, but receiving oral sex has only been a visual turn on for me. I just never felt much in the way of actual pleasure when my wife sucked my cock. In terms of actual physical pleasure, I rank vaginal intercourse number one and a hand job second, with a blowjob a distant third.

Anonymous said...

My last girlfriend wouldn't let me go down on her, which was a huge disappointment as I LOVE doing that for a woman. Making a woman writhe in ecstasy with my tongue alone is true power (and that's just with my tongue). This was the first woman who would not let me go down on her, though she was very eager and happy to go down on me. Bless her.

Back to the topic: there are probably a variety of reasons why a woman may not want a man to perform orally on her. I suspect in some cases it's largely physiological: the sensation may be simple too intense or otherwise unpleasurable. In some cases there may well be a psychological component that stems from... well, anywhere, I suppose. History of abuse, negative body image, etc.

And finally, a parting thought from the wisdom of Allan Havey... There are three types of women: those who refuse to perform oral sex at all, those who will do it to get it, and those who love to do it. If you find one of the last ones, marry her. Love will follow, I promise you.

Anonymous said...

I've heard it said that many women do not wish to be pleasured orally due to their insecurity to the odor of their pussies. I personally could care less. But I also have a male friend that finds easting pussy repulsive due to the odor/thought of it... And I'm assuming that it has to be for guys as well.. But I'm sure a lower percentage of it is actually male.

Anonymous said...

The heterosexual context that you specified for cunnilingus, while congenial for me, may have affected your statistics. Some survey respondents may have been rejecting opposite-sex contact rather than oral sex per se.

Just Lisa said...

To be really honest, I don't like a man to eat me because the sensation is so intense I just feel like I'm about to die, really, and that's when I want him inside me. I still come. But it's different. Not so scary. Maybe I'm like the girl who worries about losing control. I also keep hearing my mom's voice about how "nasty" it is "down there." I like giving head, but I have to spit. Can't swallow. Wish I had your sex drive -- and your experienced lovers!

Anonymous said...

I haven't always let guys go down on me. I thought that it was something they just endured, I thought they faked liking it. Then this summer I went down on my room-mate and it was nothing like I expected! I really enjoyed it. It has changed the way I think about my own body. But still, it doesn't really do much for me.

I try not to give blow jobs and DO NOT let guys come in my mouth. I always thought I would hate the taste of cum so for years I never let any guy do that (I told them if they did I would bite it off!). Finally I let one HOT HOT HOT guy cum in my mouth. I could taste it in my throat for days.... it was terrible. My friends said it was just psychological.....

Anonymous said...

Well I do not lick pussy, I believe the main reason for this was a very bad experience when i was younger, I atempted to eat a girl out when iw as round 12 but she smelled so horrible down there like she's never bathed before in her life, it made me gag and wanna throw up and i couldnt go thru with it so now I just can't bring myself to do it

Moose907 said...

What's not to love about going down on your lovely wife or lover? When the penis fails to cooperate (and you'll get there eventually) a talented tongue and a true appreciation for a smooth mound above a beautiful pair of blooming wet lips will take you many wonderful miles. Especially when framed by a lacy garter belt. Lead me to it!

Anonymous said...

I have never let a guy lick my pussy and I'm pretty sure it is a trust/comfortable issue. I get off from penetration and can fuck a guy without feeling anything but letting him do that would feel to intimate. I don't know.

Anonymous said...

As a woman, I don't want a man going down on my because the area just seems "dirty". Too close to other areas w/ more bacteria...anyone else have this hangup?